survey

topic posted Wed, May 23, 2007 - 9:34 PM by  Unsubscribed
For all tribe members...
Please respond with the 10 most significant things you have done/do, big or little, that has made your life more in harmony with simple living!
thanks..I look forward to the responses.
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  • Avoid Things that Need to be Advertised

    Thu, May 24, 2007 - 12:42 AM

    1. Drink more water
    2. Try to get places under my own power (walk or bike)
    3. Buy from local merchants or grow and make my own

    4. Read more library books
    5. Avoid commercial television
    6. Buy fewer, better-quality and used things

    7. Write/garden/sing
    8. Maintain quality long-term relationships with a wide variety of people
    9. Do fewer things but with more attention/intention

    10. Love the natural world and my place in it
  • Re: survey

    Thu, May 24, 2007 - 12:50 PM
    1. Riding my bike and public transit instead of driving. I spend no money on gas, put no wear and tear on my car, and I don't have to deal with the stress of traffic. People think I must always be late because I ride the train, but I'm honestly late more often when I have to drive somewhere, because traffic is so unpredictable.

    2. I made a sign that says "Simplify: what do you really need?" and put it on my bathroom mirror. It reminds me, every morning, to ask myself, "Uh, do I really need that?"

    3. Taking my lunch. I eat better, I save money. Enough said.

    4. Being more honest with friends about what I really feel like doing. If my friends had their way, I'd be eating out with them and going to movies three or four times a week. I allowed myself to be more open and say no, I don't really feel like it. Not only do I have some down time (which I seriously need), but I save a lot of money. I still see my friends a lot, too - we play board games or BBQ at our homes.

    5. Cutting out red meat. I don't have an ethical issue with eating meat, but I couldn't ignore the toll red meat takes on the environment any more. So I just stopped eating it. And yes, pork is red meat, despite what the ads say! I have a lot more energy. Plus, chicken and fish tend to be cheaper.

    6. Telling people, including friends and loved ones, what I'm doing. They are kind enough to support me, and since they're aware they don't wind up unintentionally sabotaging me.

    7. I use my library card a lot, and I also make use of my local book reseller. I buy all my books used, and then sell them back when I'm done, mainly trading them in for more books. This keeps the money I spend on books in its own little cycle. In a way, I'm still spending the same money, over and over.

    8. Same for clothes. I simply don't buy new clothing unless absolutely necessary. I shop at thrift stores or make my own. Most of the clothing I find is barely worn, super-cheap, and I know my money is going to support a local business instead of a chain.

    9. I curbed my coffee habit. I still drink it from time to time, but I'm no longer on the coffee at least once a day plan. Cheaper, and better for me.

    10. I signed up for my bank's (Bank of America) "Keep the Change" program. They round up each purchase on my ATM card and put the "spare change" into my savings account, plus they match a percentage of it each quarter. That way, when I do spend, I save a little too. This program has piled a noticable amount into my savings account!
    • Re: survey

      Thu, May 24, 2007 - 12:52 PM
      Ha! Mac Rory's list reminded me... I don't watch TV. I don't even have one. I haven't watched TV in over ten years, save for hotel rooms from time to time, and so I don't even really think about it. I listen to a lot of music, instead, when I need background noise. And if I need something to do, I sew or read or bake some bread or take a walk. I have a very low opinion of TV.
    • Re: survey

      Thu, May 24, 2007 - 1:22 PM

      > 7. I use my library card a lot, and I also make use of my local book reseller. I buy all my books used, and then sell them back when I'm done, mainly trading them in for more books. This keeps the money I spend on books in its own little cycle. In a way, I'm still spending the same money, over and over.

      Another way to do something similar is to use Bookmooch. See www.bookmooch.com . You can list the books you don't need anymore, for other people to "mooch". When they mooch from you, you get a point, and you can use that point to mooch a book from someone else.

      Try it, it's fun!
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        Re: survey

        Sat, May 26, 2007 - 10:20 PM
        1. Bike riding (tho i don't commute by bike)

        2. library (incl. checking out CD's)

        3. buying produce at Ma & Pa produce markets as much as possible

        4. patronizing small, indie bookstores when possible (vs. buying at big chain stores)

        5. buying more frozen veggies (longevity)

        6. cutting back a lot on processed sugar and starches
        • Re: survey

          Sun, May 27, 2007 - 6:10 PM
          1. I ride bike, walk, or take the bus everywhere. No need to buy a car and have all the expenses and hassles related to it. No need to work extra hours to pay for it. I get to enjoy my environment and really see my neighbourhood.

          2. I limit processed foods. Might seem like it would add to time management problems, but it actually solves a lot of problems. I don't have to wonder if I am eating healthy, or if I need to be on a diet, because food choices are not left to the last second when my will power is the lowest. I get to spend time relaxing while I do food preparation. I don't have to worry about all the excess packaging for the food items, or all the chemical additives to my food items. I have less garbage to worry about. And I spend less money on food, which means less hours working to pay for food.

          3. I don't buy things on a whim. I have an ongoing list of things I really do need, but don't want to buy new, which I review regularly. That way I can avoid impulse shopping and yet still get things and thrift stores and yard sales and know I didn't buy the item because it was a good deal, but rather because it was on my list. If I have to buy something new, I make sure that I buy something that exactly what I need/want, and that it is built to last.

          4. I periodically clean out my space and reflect on each item I sort through, whether I still like it, still use it, still need it. If not, it goes to charity. Having a cluttered space is so distracting and so stressful, at least for me. It adds to cleaning tasks. It requires more space. It requires organization units and storage units. I like my little space, with it's little rent.

          5. I schedule my down time. It's just as important as anything else I have to get done in the run of a week. There was a survey out this past week that showed that when self discribed workaholics were compared other workers there was no difference between career arc, earnings, or productivity. Allowing yourself downtime actually increases your productivity, so you can achieve the same amount in less time.

          6. I prioritize my To-Do list. Somethings have to be done, like paying the bills, making appointments, doing the laundry when you have nothing left to wear... Most things though, are not so necessary and can be pushed off a day if need be. I work my way through my list, but I don't get stressed if I fall a little bit behind from time to time.

          7. I use the public library, not only as free entertainment, but for free information as well. It is a wonderful source on information on any topic, how to compost, how to make a quilt, how to eat healthy, spiritual teachings...

          8. I like to get a great haircut that makes sure that my hair looks wonderful everyday without the need for styling products or a lot of time spent styling it daily. It might cost more, and requires that you take the effort to find a hair dresser who understands what you need/want, but it is so much of an ego boost and a time saver, which makes it worth every cent.

          9. I don't maintain relationships where I feel I have to be someone I'm not, where I feel the need to justify any of my beliefs or actions. I don't mean to say that I have only friends who think and act just like me, but rather that I don't put myself in the position of feeling bad about myself. If they are okay with me, they are okay to me.

          10. I always set my goals for myself, not for others, and plan for both the worst case senario and the ideal senario. That way I am always motivated towards my goals, but fine if things are bumpy along the way, or if I have to alter or abandon a goal here and there, it's not the end of the world.
          • Planning

            Mon, May 28, 2007 - 9:38 AM
            Interesting! Thinking about this the other day (as I was riding my bike past several yard sales, unvisited) it occurred to me that the single biggest thing I do toward simple living is (1) deciding what is important to me, (2) what is not and then (3) planning so that what is important is physically easier. Through a full pantry and modest needs I almost never have any sort of non-medical emergencies, I keep my 1990 Volvo messy and ugly but in good repair with at least a half-tank of gas and try very hard never to over-schedule, so that there is room for the needs of others and a certain amount of built-in downtime. I am reminded of such books _Walden_, _First Things First_, _Wishcraft_, _Voluntary Simplicity_ and _Your Money or Your Life_.

            A key trick to getting what you value most is taking the time to figure out what that is, and then remembering that.
  • Re: survey

    Tue, June 5, 2007 - 9:09 PM
    1. walk or ride my bicycle in lieu of vehicle use
    2. line dry the clothes
    3. feed people and animals with raw and local organic foods made with love
    4. turn off the television
    5. practice yoga with joy
    6. breathe deeply
    7. support and promote local farmer's markets and community supported agriculture shares
    8. love outloud
    9. turn on the computer less than twice a week
    10. use rain barrels, rain gardens, and native plants to restore a healthy watershed

    (11+) laugh from the core
    • Re: survey

      Tue, June 5, 2007 - 10:17 PM
      1. put me first in the morning.
      2. do dishes from the night before in the am. after the family has left so that I can look out the window and be glad I can do the dishes.
      3. ask for help
      4. stopped saying yes to everything I can do, just because I can do them, and stopped qualifying
      5. combine purposes for trips to the city.
      6. find time in the day to sit quietly with my thoughts.
      7. developed a measure of my well-being: SPICE-spiritual, physical, intellectual, creative and emotional. If somethings out of balance, I re evaluate what I'm doing.
      8. Stop and listen to my children when they talk. All else pales in comparison.
      9. Work hard at living with intent.
      10. Remember who's important and make time for them.
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        Re: survey

        Wed, June 6, 2007 - 8:44 AM
        These are all fantastic. PLEASE keep them coming. !!!!
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    Re: survey

    Wed, July 11, 2007 - 6:58 PM
    anyone else want to add? I will put them into a compilation and share on here. I am also writing a book that includes these aspects and will acknowledge!
    • Re: survey

      Fri, July 13, 2007 - 7:15 AM
      Cool.

      I have a couple more.

      during the summer, when it's cooler, I cook everything double. It takes a little more prep time, but in the end saves HUGE amounts of time later and allows for simplicity during the hotter days.

      For example: when making hamburgers, I use the large family pack of ground. 1/2 goes into patties (1/2 of those will be used in that meal, the other 1/2 frozen) and the rest goes into the frying pan while the burgers are being BBQed, then frozen for tacos, lasagna, or soup.

      When the oven's on for a roast, I cook 2. 2 chickens or 2 roast beef. The remainer either goes in the freezer or gets kept for sandwiches and to top salads. One of my faves in the summer is garden fresh salad with chicken, mandarin oranges and sunflower seeds.

      The latest thing I learned was so simple I did a "DUH" on my forehead. When at a Swiss friend's house, she just about slapped my hand for cutting a block of guda with the side of one of those spatula/slicer gizmos. She actually said "What are you doing to my cheese????". I'd always sliced cheese if we were having it for dinner and put it on the plate. That makes a dirty cutting board, plate and knife. She, on the other hand, puts a 1/4 wheel of cheese with a bit of the wax peeled, on a plate with this gizmo. The cheese gets passed around and everyone slices their own cheese. It's a cultural thing, but I'm adopting it.
  • Re: survey

    Fri, August 31, 2007 - 11:53 PM
    Hello, I am new here, but certainly am learning a lot from this tribe.

    Now, the things I have done

    1) living car free. I walk, bike, take public transit everywhere.

    2) Try to live without too many machines at home. I don't have a microwave, air conditioner or TV.

    3) Keep my body/mind in balance and healthy so I don't have to see doctor, therapist etc.

    4) Learn to use all-natural holistic remedies-herbs, yoga, qigong etc. I haven't had the need to take allopathic drugs for years. (no painkiller or antibiotics etc.)

    5) Find creative use/ second life for things to eliminate need for to buy more. For example, i would stack up books (the ones I don't read on a daily basis) and use it as a plant stand or lamp stand. My pencils/brush holders are reused from cans, If I do have any plastic take out containers, they either become plant pot saucers, or used as paint palettes. In other words, reduce & reuse things to their greatest extent before you throw it out or recycle.

    6) Rent, borrow, trade, instead of buying. That include joining a car-sharing service, borrowing videos/books from library, trading plant cuttings etc.

    7) limit my stuff to existing shelf space instead of getting more storage furniture to hold more things that i buy. A good rule for me is, for everything I buy, eliminate another.


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      Re: survey

      Sun, October 28, 2007 - 8:27 PM
      anyone have any more to add to this? If not I'll consolidate it all and get it out to you all in a coherent piece.
      thanks
      Ookami
      • Re: survey

        Mon, October 29, 2007 - 7:45 AM


        Ookami,

        If I may add my list, it is:

        1. walk when I can, take public transit when I can't, and very rarely drive anywhere
        2. save as much money as I can by limiting purchases of things I don't really need
        3. take a pragmatic / rational approach to life, and reject beliefs / values that don't make sense to me (god, creator, messiah, etc.)
        4. adopt a much more minimal lifestyle (I adore the beauty of an empty room, for instance)
        5. try to be more honest with myself and others
        6. freecycle! freecycle! freecycle!
        7. limit the trash I generate by being very aware of things like excess packaging (and choosing not to buy them)
        8. using natural power sources (solar) when I can
        9. limit the conditions that I put upon other people when I interface with them -- let them be themselves, and let myself be myself, without getting hung up on our differences

        Thank you!

        Regards,

        John

        Falling You - exploring the beauty of voice and sound
        www.fallingyou.com

        • Re: survey

          Thu, November 1, 2007 - 2:58 PM
          I second what most people have said but I'd like to add the following ...
          1. Living a Vegan lifestyle. This enables me to be compassionate, honest with myself and with the animals. I am very aware of what's going into and on my body.
          2. Composting
          3. Gardening - growing my own veggies/herbs
          3. Recycling
          4. Using soy candles for my evening lighting
          5. Avoiding frivolous trips to anywhere
          6. Keeping tchotchkies down to a minimum (I love decorating for holidays)
          7. Teaching my beautiful kids to be compassionate and loving
  • Re: survey

    Mon, November 5, 2007 - 4:52 PM
    two come to mind:

    1. Keep minimal material possessions

    2. Stay in touch with Nature.
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    Re: survey

    Mon, November 5, 2007 - 9:59 PM
    1 Meditation
    2 becoming a vegetarian
    3 bicycling
    4 staying home more
    5 drinking more water
    6 spending time with pets
    7 quit watching, reading, or listening to any news
    8 reading more
    9 shopping at local coop
    10 no longer discuss religion or politics
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    Re: survey

    Wed, November 21, 2007 - 6:56 AM
    Ya know what, I am going to just keep this going before I consolidate..it continues to grow with fantastic ideas and practices.

    -Ookami
  • Re: survey

    Tue, January 1, 2008 - 4:16 PM
    Live "in the open" and talk about my choices. I am always happy to explain why I wear used clothes and carpool.

    Break ground. I have been 'waiting for the money' to garden because I really thought you had to have the lumber to build raised beds, the skill to build raised beds, the time to build raised beds... Not that I am against raised beds. But I would still be waiting to garden if they were the only way to grow food. I encourage everyone who wants to try something to just go ahead and try without the obligatory trip to Home Depot.

    Put down the magazines. Not only do I save money by not buying them, but I am saving my sanity by not seeing all of those glossy pages full of "stuff". I really don't want that stuff, so why am I looking at it saying, "ooh... that's cute..."?

    Turn of the tv.

    Turn on NPR

    Walk or bike whenever I can. Walking isn't very simple but I am healthier, happier and more connected.

    Stop eating meat. For me, it was the right choice. Most of my family remain meateaters. We live in peace.

    Dress for success. By that I mean, successful simplicity. I don't wear make up, heels, jewelry or brand names across my chest or on me bumm. The used clothes I by are plain and if a small logo is visiable, I run a line through it with a black sharpie. Yes, people have noticed and I use it as a chance to explain I don't support Tommy Hillfiger (or whoever) and encourage the used clothing option. I have never had a negative response.

    Shop locally. Spend a little more cash at the locally owned hometown coffeeshop and not drive to Starbucks.

    Voice my intentions. Even what I can't do yet (ie: harvest rainwater) I intend to and my intentions are powerful...

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